Man Urged To Confront Wife He Caught Cheating With ‘Husband of Her Friend’


A heartbroken husband has been asked to confront his wife after discovering her infidelity under terrible circumstances. cases studied. For many, it’s simply an unforgivable act, leaving behind wounds that never heal, but others can still find a way back. To achieve a resolution, the problem must be solved. However, that can often be easier said than done, and for a “devastated” husband of almost 20 years, at the moment, not much is said. Image of a man sitting away from a woman. A husband has taken to social media to detail his latest dilemma. stefanamer/Getty Writing in a post shared on Mumsnet under the 1970s pseudonym, the distraught man said, “My wife is the love of my life. I mean I adore her.” He said he thought they were “so happy” together and enjoying a healthy and “meaningful” relationship with their teenage son. “I can’t imagine being with anyone other than her, she’s so kind and funny, smart, strong-willed and sweet,” he added. “I’m in love with her.” All of this made his discovery even more shocking. It all started last week when he went to meet a client from work at a restaurant across town. He was initially on the phone, waiting for the client when he “heard her voice” and looked up to see something that left his world “shattered”. “My wife had come in, with her friend’s husband,” he wrote. “They had their hands on top of each other, it was like watching a pair of animals in heat.” The man said he felt like he had “temporarily passed out” at the sight of his wife with another man and double-checked to make sure. His worst fears were soon confirmed. “There they were holding hands across the table,” he said. Feeling “so shocked and sick”, he stumbled out of the restaurant and got into a taxi home. Once there, he said he collapsed, unable to contemplate what was next. “I don’t know what to do now, I don’t want my marriage to end, but how can I continue like this?” he wrote. “I can honestly say that I trusted my wife 100 per cent. When she said she had to work late, I didn’t question it. When she said she was meeting friends, I believed her. Why wouldn’t I?” worse, he continued to live by her side as if nothing had happened but feels “sick” to know the truth. After concluding it had to be a ‘physical thing’ due to some health issues that left him with ‘erectile dysfunction’, the man says he doesn’t know what’s going on follow. “I feel so ashamed and humiliated. I don’t know what to do now, do I just let it take its course and act oblivious?” He asked. The response from social media was a resounding ‘no’. “You need to tell her you know you can’t live like this,” Catfunk wrote with MyDogLucy agreeing, writing, “I don’t think you should act recklessly and hope this will fall apart, this will end. by destroying you. “Another Mumsnet user, alpenguin, urged the husband to defend himself. “You deserve someone who will treat you with respect, dignity and love,” they said. Strawberriesaregreat felt the man just had to confront her, regardless of the outcome. “Yes, you risk her leaving but it depends on what you are able to live with and only you can know that,” they warned. Cait73, meanwhile, wondered if even if they reconciled, he could ever forgive her again. “I could never trust a partner again. I know I would be constantly worried and checked on,” they said. Elsewhere, BellyButton88 slammed the man’s wife for her selfish actions given the circumstances. “You don’t go with the other halves of your friend,” they said. “It speaks volumes about how awful he is as a person. It’s selfish to do this to your own family, especially if you share a child together.”

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